High Class Lady Woes

My sister is a prime example of what people call a high maintenance woman. On any given day you can expect to see in with manicured hands and feet, her body adored in the latest fashion and her hair styled to perfection. Even on her off days she manages to look primly polished. She follows the rules of lady etiquette very strictly. You won’t catch her placing her expensive purse (or any purse for that matter) on the floor. She smells as if she bathes herself in delicate perfume and when you speak to her the first question is almost always “Where do you see yourself in the future?”

For the last ten years my sister has systematically developed theses rituals and stands for herself. She has placed an unbelievably high value on herself and everything she owns. At times it is annoying and borderline snobbish, but what makes women like her so appealing is the fact that they are ambassadors of wealth manifested in human form. In this visually stimulated society women like this are desirable because their physical appeal is indicative their potential to excel. That drive and passion often seen in millionaires and successful business moguls is often the same traits that motivate these women. Like any thriving business they are constantly investing in themselves to reap the benefits of life.

Until now it always seemed strange that so many average ordinary men would approach these high maintenance women when it was clear she was out of their league. However it suddenly seems comprehensible enough to date such a high class lady. With a woman like this on his arm, anything seems possible. But let’s face it, a high class woman does not want to settle. And up to now it has been encouraged that women like this should relax their standards so that average Joes can stand a chance.

But is this really wise? It’s a relief that most of these women refuse to compromise their standards. It seems almost evil to discourage a person with bid dreams to stop dreaming. If it is their true heart’s content to be with a person of similar caliber then by all means, they have every right to have it. These women work hard to uphold themselves with the purpose of sending out the message that they are valuable.

Christiana said is best, “There’s nothing wrong with being a high maintenance women if you want the standard to be excellent throughout your life…if you have a high standard, which requires high maintenance don’t apologize for that” (Check out the full vlog here) I don’t feel these women should be pressured into lowering their standards to appease someone else, rather stay firm in their beliefs to eventually get the results they want. As for the men who desire them, my advice is to either become high maintenance yourself or find a less flashy woman.